The Bachelor Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s ex Selma Alameri: I think Jef Holm is jealous Arie is 'The Bachelor' rather than him 01/10/2018 Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s former girlfriend, The Bachelor alum Selma Alameri, has apparently picked a side in the Arie vs. Jef Holm feud. Read More RELATED NEWS 'The Bachelor' alum Seinne Fleming pregnant with her first child'The Bachelor' alum Bekah Martinez welcomes third child with fiance Grayston Leonard'The Bachelor' alum Krystal Nielson marries Miles Bowles in romantic California wedding TAGS: The Bachelor Selma Alameri Chris Harrison Jef Holm Sean Lowe Arie Luyendyk Jr. Emily Maynard The Bachelor