American Idol Jennifer Lopez: I'm not rushing Casper Smart relationship 01/19/2013 Jennifer Lopez, 43, says she's not rushing things with her 25-year-old boyfriend, Casper Smart, because she's been "hasty in the past." Read More RELATED NEWS 'American Idol' alum Colton Dixon and wife Annie Dixon welcome twins'American Idol' alum Colton Dixon and wife Annie Dixon expecting first child'American Idol' winner Phillip Phillips and wife have a baby boy TAGS: American Idol Jennifer Lopez Marc Anthony Jason Statham Parker